Secret Psychology To Controlling A Woman's Emotions & Judgments She Makes About You
Note: Inside this letter are some brand-spanking new push-pull techniques for you to use this New Year's Eve. This is powerful stuff. I want you to go into 2009 with a bang. So be sure to read the entire letter. You’ll be glad you did.
A few nights ago, my eyeballs witnessed something more ghoulish than a monkey strapped to the bottom-side of a table with his head poking up through a hole while hungry diners spoon out chunks of grey matter from his sawed-open skull.
What I saw horrified me because it hit so close to home…
Inside a Hollywood nightclub, my friend spots a shining example of sexual perfection as the speakers blare LMFAO’s I’m In Miami Bitch. Although her waist is Hollywood debutante, coke-fiend skinny, she sports udders big enough to turn a newborn obese and a badonkadonk good enough to make Kim Kardashian jealous.
He goes in for the kill and within seconds she’s fondling him like a 3-year-old girl getting her first teddy bear. Next, their lips lock. Big fish swallows little fish. Everyone watching is thinking, “Damn… it’s on like Donkey Kong.”
But a few minutes later, things go awry. She tells him he’s weird. He tries to turn it around but she just gets angrier.
He’s crossed the Rubicon… the point of no return… he’s gone down the rabbit hole of shit… and the deeper he goes, the shitier it gets.
And for the crescendo… out of a red lipsticked Merlin Monroe pucker, she bellows, “Leave right now!!!”
He responds with, “huh-muh-nah huh-muh-nah huh-muh-nah.”
As she walks away with an ego ballooned to three times the size of her monster melons, his hands clutch the air and his mouth yelps, “wait!”
Just watching my friend made my heart sink because I’ve been in his shoes countless times. There’s a good chance you have as well.
Is this woman a psycho bitch cocooned in beauty? A man-eater swathed in boner-inducing body parts?
Perhaps. But that’s not the subject matter of this letter. Regardless of her mental psyche, there are things he could’ve said and done from the get-go that would’ve kept her emotions at bay.
That’s exactly what the secrets you’re about to learn do. Think of these techniques as preventive medicine. A vaccination against bitchiness.
However… what I’m about to teach you does a lot more than exterminate a bad attitude… it unconsciously conditions women to be more compliant.
Before this icicle princess called my buddy weird, there were signs buttoned to her face and body heralding the train wreck of human interaction to come.
When cancerous thoughts and emotions brew inside women, they usually telegraph them in their body language and facial expressions.
So, not surprisingly, the first step to controlling a woman’s emotions and judgments about you is paying attention to her body language and facial expressions.
Does she scowl, roll her eyes, furrow her brow, or cross her arms?
These are hints of negative emotions.
Step 2 is to frame the negative facial expression or body language as a criticism about her looks. (Note: avoid framing it as something you triggered in her.)
For example, you could frame scowling and furrowing her brow as facial expressions that make her look old.
Step 3 is to precede the criticism with a sincere compliment.
I’m going to share a few examples with you from the last couple of nights.
As I started chatting with this cute Texan, her more attractive friend lashed her head side-to-side and furrowed her brow at me. An obvious sign she wasn’t a big Swinggcat fan and wanted me to leave ASAP.
So I told her, “You have a very beautiful face… but when you furrow your brow, it makes you look twenty years beyond your age… botox my dear.”
The shock and lack of certainty how to interpret my comment plastered a smile to her face. (In fact, it was the first time she smiled at me.)
So I said, “You have a very beautiful smile. You should smile more. When you smile it makes you look fun and playful instead of so domineering and serious.”
She inquired, “Am I domineering and serious?”
I repeated, “You have a very nice smile. You should smile more often.”
From this point on, she was putty in my hands. (In a minute, I’ll break down why this technique transformed her from an uptight you-know-what into a fun loving girl ready to please at my beck and call.)
Another woman I chatted with had closed body language: she was slouching and her arms were crossed.
So I told her, “You have a beautiful body. It’s statuesque. But when you stand there with your arms crossed, you look like an overweight elderly woman with a bad case of scoliosis.”
If you’re a regular reader of my letters, you’ll notice the push-pull structure to these techniques.
For those new to my letters: Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you and, then, emotionally pull her back in or vice versa. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. Emotional Pushes feel cold and lonely while Emotional Pulls feel warm and fuzzy.
The psychological roller coaster push-pull takes women on fills their bodies to brim with sexual tension.
Push-pull can help prevent a woman from making negative judgments about you. Normally we think in one direction at a time.
Taking a woman’s mind in two directions at once shuts down her critical factor – that’s the part of her mind that makes negative judgments about you and the voice of reason that stops her from letting you sexually escalate.
Push-pull is a deadly effective tool for taking her mind in two directions at once.
But what I’m doing here goes beyond ordinary push-pull…
I’m conditioning women on an unconscious level to feel certain emotions around me.
Let’s take the first example I gave you: “You have a very beautiful face… but when you furrow your brow, it makes you look twenty years beyond your age.”
When a woman furrows her brow at me, she harbors a negative emotion or judgment about me.
By criticizing her at the moment she furrows her brow, she unconsciously associates those negative emotions with looking old. In other words, I’m tying a great deal of pain to having those emotions.
The compliment gives her unconscious mind a roadmap away from pain and towards pleasure. Not feeling bad emotions, not making negative judgments about me, and not furrowing her brow get associated with youth and beauty.
Because we’re hardwired to move away from pain and towards pleasure, she stops harboring the negative emotions and judgments about me.
This technique also exploits a psychological principle called Commitment & Consistency.
We all have an internal need for our current beliefs, values, and behaviors to be consistent with our past ones.
By inciting a woman to change her facial expressions, body language, emotions, and judgments about you, you’re gaining a small amount of compliance over her.
Though tiny, this small amount of compliance makes her a thousand percent more likely to comply to bigger things, such as: locking lips, going to your house, and doing the nasty.
I want you to go out and see for yourself just how well these tools work.
Keep in mind this is just a tiny introduction to building sexual tension and getting compliance from women.
For most men, looks, social status, and age play a big role in their success with women.
But when you master the skill of building sexual tension and getting compliance from women, looks, social status, and age become irrelevant.
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