Creating Attraction With Confindence

A few months ago a girl came to my house selling magazine subscriptions. When I opened the door and hinted a willingness to hear her spiel, she looked surprised. I think I was the first person in my neighborhood to actually listen to her. Most
people hate and avoid at all costs door-to-door solicitors, fearing that they'll be conned and swindled into buying
their wares. Not me. I love hearing a salesman's pitch. Probably because - as someone who's done a lot of sales - I take
a personal interest in analyzing other's attempts at persuading me.

She was offering subscriptions to magazines I enjoy reading. The money was going toward helping troubled youth get into College - a cause I wholeheartedly support!

But she would have had to hold me at gunpoint to get even a single penny out of me. Was I skeptical about where the magazine profits were really going? Nope. I felt she was
completely honest with me.

Why couldn't she get me to crack? Am I a cheap bastard? I can be - yet I would have bought from her. But there was something
holding me back. Was it her sale's presentation? For the most part - no! The pitch she splurted out of her fast moving lips was well crafted and persuasive. I was slightly turned off by her plowing through the sale's presentation at a Speedy Gonzalez gait, sprinkled with jerky, contrived hand gestures. Although,
not to the tune of dissuading me from forking over the cash. What stopped me from giving up the moolah was something
else...

She had a Weak Intent. She was lumbered with the desire to make a quick sale - I could see it her puppy dog eyes. She even
said all the necessary things to get me to buy. Yet something was entirely lacking...

She didn't believe I would buy from her.

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

Read this sentence ten times aloud. Brand your forehead with it if you have to. Do whatever you have to do to internalize the adage. This is something that all men who are amazing with women get.

Women are repulsed by the needy. Human beings across the board are repulsed by the needy. This, I think, is part of our
biological hardwiring. Neediness is a one-way ticket to squandering all possible success with women. Do whatever you need to do to purge yourself of it.

I'm the ex world champion at acting needy with women. I had the desire to succeed with them but not the belief.

It wasn't only the smart women who were onto my weakness, the borderline dummies were too. These girls weren't stupid enough to get a handicapped parking space. And were too smart to qualify for the Special Olympics Games. But not by much. If you look on their bookshelves, you'll probably only find the two books: How to strip and a made-easy-for-children version of the bible. Even these girls, however, could see, hear, feel, and smell my weakness. I had the desire to succeed with
them but not the belief. I had a Weak Intent. And as you now know...

Desire In The Absence Of Belief Is Neediness.

These women saw me as one needy bitch -
and they were right.

Everything changed when I started
developing a mindset that every man who's
exceptional with women has: A Strong
Intent.

You might be thinking: "Hmm...what exactly
is a Strong Intent?"

Desire in the presence of belief is having
a Strong Intent. But I'm not talking about
any run-of-the-mill belief. The belief
has to be the unwavering certainty that
you'll achieve your intended outcome.

You could have all of the skills and
desire in the world but without the
unwavering certainty that you'll get what
you want, you're doomed.

One thing that has helped me tremendously
is rehearsing my intended outcome. So,
for example, if your goal is to kiss women
you've just met, maybe, rehearse in your
mind women brimming with the desire to
kiss you. Imagine women feeling elated
that you finally kissed them. Think of
them passionately kissing you back. The
more you rehearse these outcomes the more
unwavering your belief becomes that women
are yearning and willing to kiss you.

Here's a quick way of testing right now
how unwavering your beliefs are. If your
intended outcome, for example, was to
engage a very beautiful woman in conversation,
could you follow through?

Even if you answered, "yes," it doesn't
mean you have the unwavering belief that
you can engage beautiful women.

Thinking you can do something is very
different from having the unwavering belief
that you can do something.

Years ago, for example, I was at a seminar
where the teacher purported to give men
confidence. Afterwards, many of the
attendees felt, they could talk to any
woman. But when push came to shove, I
discovered, they were scared to death of
approaching women. These men felt confident
yet had no confidence.

Here's a better test you can do right now.
Close your eyes and imagine a beautiful
woman five feat away from you. Go talk
to her right now without any hesitation.
Don't wait. Do it now. If you can't or feel
yourself wanting to wait a few minutes, you
don't yet have the unwavering belief. You
don't yet have the confidence. You don't
yet have a Strong Intent. But you can.

I can't even begin to describe to you just
how much success with women you're missing
out on by not having a Strong Intent.

When I was first learning how to attract women
I was frustrated because almost all of the
available material was geared toward making
men feel confident and think they could
accomplish their goals with women.

But I soon found out, to my chagrin, this
wasn't good enough. If I wanted to make my
dreams come true, I realized, I needed to
develop real confidence and the unwavering
beliefs that I could accomplish my goals.

So I developed a fool-proof system, giving
me the tools to step-by-step develop
unwavering beliefs, confidence, and a
powerful intent, leading to massive
success with women.

Inside my course you'll gain access to
this complete system, irrevocability
changing how women respond to you for the
rest of your life.

This, however, is only part of what you'll
learn from my course.

You'll find hundreds of powerful
techniques, skills, and concepts
for attracting women you won't find
anywhere else in the world - period!

Just think what it will be like to
finally have the skills and confidence
to plop your butt in the driver's seat
while interacting with women, giving
you the power and choice to take your
interactions with them in the direction
you want. Start getting this area of
your life taken care of right now by
getting your hands on a copy of my
course. You be glad you did.

And if you haven't already downloaded a
copy of my ebook, do so.

Your Loyal Dating Coach,

Swinggcat
"Dr. Attraction"

P.S.-If you have a success story you would
like to share, or a question you would like
to ask, or a comment you would like to
make, please email me at

swinggcat@realworldseduction.com

Include the fist initial of your first and
last name. And include the country,
state/province, and city you live in.

This whole "learning" thing goes both ways,
you know!

 

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