Common Misconceptions About Attraction
Yes it's true…
There's a misconception almost all men have…
When most men are talking to a woman and she chirps “I've gotta go,” they take it as a threat that she's about to leave.
They'll either beg her to stay or let her walk away because…
They think she isn't kidding about leaving.
But I've got news for you, my friend…
95% of the time it's easier than tying your shoe to get a woman to stay – even when she tells you, “I need to leave, now!”
And in a minute I'm gonna share with you a secret for taking a woman's words “I gotta go” and using them to both emotionally compel her to stay and generate heaps of attraction inside her.
But first, let's review the intention behind a woman's words “I gotta go.”
Sometimes a woman's words “I gotta go” match her intentions. That's a given.
Maybe you genuinely pissed her off and she wants to leave.
Perhaps there was an awkward lull in the conversation, making her feel uncomfortable. So leaving, to her, seems like the best way to kill the tension.
Maybe she legitimately has somewhere to go.
But here's something you may not know…
There are times when women tell men they want to leave… but they don't. They've got other intentions.
Now and then, for example, women bring up the words “I have to go in minute” early on in the conversation with a man. That way, if the conversation goes awry, they can politely slink on out.
Occasionally these words are a test to see how badly a man wants them to stay.
And...
Every so often, they use these words as a takeaway. As an attempt to spur a man into chasing or pursuing them.
But… regardless of a woman wanting to leave, attempting to make you chase her, or trying to test you, it's well within your reach to compel her to stay… and do it in a way that generates mucho attraction inside her.
Here's what to do, and it wasn't long ago that I discovered this secret for myself…
Let's say you're talkin' to a woman, and she says, “I've gotta go help my guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness.”
Respond with: “I've gotta go in a minute myself.”
Then say something to rivet her attention: maybe share a funny story, show her something interesting, or hint that you know something about her without letting her know what it is.
When you sense you've got her fully engaged, pounce. Stick your fangs into her jugular by bellowing…
“Go! You've got to help your guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness! Leave right now. Hurry! Hurry along!”
Here's what'll happen 95% of the time…
She'll stand their like a dumb deer in headlights, not knowing how to react… but wanting to stay.
Let's plunge into the psychology behind this secret…
Whenever you force the unconscious mind to decide between two choices it almost always chooses the one that feels most pleasurable in that moment.
In other words, when I tell a woman who's fully engaged in conversation with me to go help her guinea pig deal with the angst of post industrial madness, she wants to stay because…
Talkin' to me is more appealing than dealing with her dumb rodent.
Here's a worry you might be having…
What if she's choosing between talking to me and going on a date with a guy lumbered with model good looks?
Most likely she'll choose You because…
You're giving her pleasure, putting her in a good state of mind, in the here and now.
The unconscious mind doesn't think: “I'm feeling good now, but I'd feel even better if I left this guy and went on the date with the model.”
All it knows is that it's feeling good feelings now, and, therefore, is going to choose the source of these good feelings – namely, YOU.
Here's something else cool…
The conscious mind justifies everything the unconscious mind decides.
Can you guess why this is useful?
When she decides unconsciously to stay, she consciously thinks to herself: “Wow, I like this guy. He's cool. I want to talk to him.”
This is also a form of what I call Push-Pull.
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you…and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.
To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to that urge to chow down on your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in to your urge and indulge?
I'm willing to bet it would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
Now imagine in the midst of enjoying your favorite food a person yanking it away from you.
Annoying, yes? But I'm willing to bet, your desire for the food would grow exponentially.
Same thing is true here…
By engaging the woman, putting her in a good state, you're pulling her into you.
And then… by insisting that she leave through using her own reasons back on her, you're pushing her away, compelling her to emotionally crave you to re-engage her.
This creates heaps of attraction inside women.
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