Generating Massive Amounts Of Attraction With Tension Loops...

 

I just saw Quentin Tarantino's latest movie,
Kill Bill: Volume II. In the movie, the antagonist, Bill, says to the protagonist, The Bride, "You're not a worker bee...you're a renegade killer bee." Since I am always relating everything to men's success with women, this snippet of dialogue got me thinking: "Women are not attracted to men who are worker bees; they are attracted to renegade killer bees."

In our culture, unfortunately, most men are worker bees. The vast majority of the male populace spends a great deal of time thinking about how women judge them. This is "worker bee" mentality. The collective male worker bee worries about, for example, "Did she find my jokes funny?" or "Did she find my stories
intriguing?" or "Am I tall enough for her?" or
"Am I skinny enough for her?" or "Was she
offended by the comment I just made"...and so
on. Worker bees will even spend a great deal of
time trying to win the approval of women
lumbered with a heart of dung. My gripe with the
"worker bee" mentality is that it conveys to
women that a man is not the PRIZE. As those of
you who have read my book know: Women are not
ATTRACTED to this. Women are ATTRACTED to the
renegade killer bee because he is the PRIZE.

Men with "renegade killer bee" mentalities are
not concerned with how women judge them. In
fact, women often times end up trying to win
over their approval. This is because the renegade killer bee has standards women must live up to: Instead of thinking, "Am I good enough for her?" he thinks, "Is she good enough for me?"

All renegade killer bees, furthermore, understand how to generate ATTRACTION in women. They know that ATTRACTING a woman is about being the PRIZE, coupled with making her want and reach for more of them. The art of making a woman want and reach for more of you is what I call PRIZING.

I am about to share a powerful method for PRIZING. But before I do, I want you to stop reading this, and go get a few pieces of paper and a pen.

Did you go get a few pieces of paper and a pen?

Good!

The method for PRIZING I want to share with you is called "tension loops" (those of you who have read my book or past newsletters might be familiar with "tension loops").

A tension loop is when you do something to
create unresolved emotional tension inside a
woman, increase it, release it by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching for more of you.

This is the exact structure great movie makers
use to keep their audience enraptured for hours.
Let's take a look at the structure of a quality
film. It starts off sparking unresolved
emotional tension by introducing some kind of
conflict or drama. Then this emotional tension
increases up until the point of the climax. Then
the tension is released by bringing some
resolution to the conflict or drama. And,
finally, the movie ends by sparking the
tension all over again. This makes the audience
want to see the sequel.

One of my favorite tension loops to use on a
woman is to say to her: "You know what? I don't
like you...because you remind me of Miranda...
whom I hated in the second grade...because I was
jealous of her...because she used to always beat
me at hot hands!" (The pauses between each
clause amplify the tension).

Then I will challenge her to a game of hot
hands. Since I am very good at the game I almost
always win. Next I release the tension by
hugging her and telling her, "I love you now."
Finally, I spark the tension all over again by
pushing her away and saying, "Because you
suck at hot hands."

Now that you know what a tension loop is, I
want you to spend the next fifteen minutes
thinking about different ways you could
spark tension loops in women. Write all of
your ideas down. Seriously, stop reading
this and do the exercise.

Have you completed the exercise?

Excellent!

I want you to go out and try all of the
different tension loops you came up with. Next
I want you to type out your results. Send them
to me, even if your results were not the best:

swinggcat@realworldseduction.com

After a few weeks of doing this exercise you
will begin to notice the renegade killer bee
in you coming out. If you haven't picked up my book yet, you need to get yourself a copy. To get the maximum benefit from the exercises I am going to be discussing in the weeks to come, you need to have read or be reading my book. Otherwise, you will be missing too many concepts that are fundamental for succeeding with the
aforementioned exercises.

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