How This Guy Went From A Dead End Relationship To 12 Attractive Lovers At Once…
“Candyman here. I love you Swinggcat. Your concepts such as Prizability and the Meta Frame of the interaction, and your method of story telling and cold reading is really helpful for me and best of all it is fun for the women.
I was in a struggling relationship a few months ago and it was getting worse and worse and it wasn't that I was becoming a nice guy but I was trying to use game to keep it together and in the process I was sacrificing integrity to myself, and I was essentially becoming hollow and out of touch and essentially depressed if it wasn't for your ebook.
I probably would have continued to let it suck the life out of me, but I let her go, all because I was the prize and I learnt that from you.
I now have 12 long term lovers who all know about each other, and there's a certain inner game factor that comes with having so many girls in your life. You lose the scarcity mentality and you see that women are in true abundance, hence you no longer feel the pangs or loss, or regret and you can take any opportunity as it comes, and thus you become more attractive and even more women come.
Just last night my phone rang off the hook. I was Instant Messaging about 20 different girls over msn and my mobile phone started ringing. Girls had me on webcam and they were watching as I picked up both my phones and struggled to speak to them, it was funny. You've played a central role in giving me true freedom in this part of my life I am very grateful. thank you.”
Candyman from Australia
Swinggcat Comments:
Okay, first off, congratulations to the Candyman: Dude, you've mutated yourself from a whipped gimp into a certified pimp. Twelve long term lovers! Hot Damn! You'd make most Roman Emperors blush. Shit – you'd make Hugh Hefner blush!
Some of you reading this might be thinking, “This guy must be in lala land. There's no way he could have twelve lovers at once.”
Admittedly, I've never met the Candyman. But I can tell from his email that he gets it. He understands women and takes the right frame of mind with them.
Guys who “just get it” live in a completely different reality from the average collective male.
Most men fumble through life, experiencing mediocre success at best, blissfully unaware of the throngs of opportunities they're missing out on.
Where average guys see unobtainable women and impossible barriers to get past, ladies' men see opportunity and abundance.
Because of this, ladies' men experience success outside the realm of what many other guys think is possible.
I've spent time on both sides of the spectrum…
Back when I was a low functioning gimp with women, friends would tell me about having threesomes, sleeping with women minutes after meeting them, living with a harem of girls and many other reality crushing stories.
I had a hard time believing them. Their stories seemed as likely as me sprouting a giant pair of wings in the middle of night and flying off to never never land.
But… the pendulum has swung the other way. I've been plunged into the shoes of the ladies' man. I see opportunity where many others see ego crushing danger.
Now I realize many of the freaky stories ladies' men had told me probably were true.
Not all. Some guy's tales march far into the realm of B.S.
But many of those arcane stories we've all heard, the ones that sound like they were gleaned from Pulp Fiction or Fear & Loathing In Las Vegas, actually happened.
Reality, at least for the ladies' man, can be much stranger than fiction.
If you're a ladies' man reading this letter, you know exactly what I'm talkin' about.
This segues into one of the key pieces to becoming phenomenal with women (and in a minute I'll share with you the other two pieces)…
EXPANDING YOUR SENSE OF POSSIBILITY.
The next time you hear a wild and crazy story and think to yourself, “Impossible! Couldn't of happened!” know that you're communicating to your unconscious mind that not only do you believe this story is impossible for the person telling it but also impossible for you.
A ladies' man might question the story, but he wouldn't question the possibility that it could happen.
Get the difference?
We rarely – if ever – experience success beyond what we think is possible.
But the goal isn't to develop beliefs about what's possible.
Believing something is possible is just having a great imagination.
Children have great imaginations, and, thus, their sense of possibility is only limited by their imaginations.
But, alas, as kids grow older the negativity of friends, family, culture, and bad experiences din into them beliefs of impossibility.
For the average man, his negativity dictates his success.
But for the ladies' man, the power of his imagination determines his success.
Let's imagine, for example, a guy spots a woman with the perfect silicon-frozen, baby-doll pout. She strikes a chord deep within his groin, compelling him to want to sleep with her then and there.
If he here's an inner voice hissing the self-esteem venom, “That could never happen to you! Dreams are free, buddy!” his chances of sleeping with her right away are almost zero.
And as long as his mind is fraught with negativity, he probably won't sleep with a woman he desires right away.
But if he rips that negativity out of his mind and stomps on it ‘til it's jelly, he's free to imagine the possibility of sleeping with her right away.
And because he's able to imagine sleeping with her right away, the chances of him sleeping with her right away increase a 1000 percent! (If you've got an urge to shatter all of your negative beliefs, you need to pick up a copy of my course by clicking here).
Yet…
…to make his goal a consistent reality he needs two other pieces… key pieces every ladies' has… and here's one of them…
COMING FROM A FRAME OF MIND THAT YOU'RE THE PRIZE WOMEN WANT TO WIN OVER…
I've got a concept I call Prizability. In a nutshell Prizability is having enough value in a woman's eyes that if you walked away, jetted out of her life, or didn't validate her, she'd take it as a loss.
Universally, women perceive the men they feel attraction for as a Prize they want to win over.
If a woman discovers that you're not a Prize, any attraction she felt for you will wither away.
Many guys instinctually know this. That's why they spend a lot of time coming up with ways to increase their Prizability: from buying fancy houses, boats, and sports cars to telling jokes and sharing interesting stories to showering women with gifts and buying them expensive dinners.
But…
Do you know what the most powerful means of increasing your Prizability with women is?
Most men are oblivious to it… yet all ladies' men capitalize off of it.
The most powerful means of increasing your Prizability with women is walking into every interaction with them believing, you're a Prize they wants to win over.
When a man believes every woman sees him as a Prize she's itching to win over it communicates a very powerful message to a female: Your life will be more exciting and interesting with me in it… and I don't give a damn if you seize this opportunity because there are heaps women lining up for me right behind you.
If you use any of the aforementioned means of gaining Prizability with a woman without believing she sees you as a Prize, any attraction she felt for you will dwindle to a suicidal trickle.
My advice…
Walk into every interaction with women believing you're the Prize they desperately want to win over. If you want a step-by-step education on doing this, click here.
The Candyman claims that having twelve lovers has given him the inner game and confidence to come from a place of abundance with women. There's no denying it – sporting twelve lovers would put most men's egos on steroids.
But I'm willing to bet the Candyman worked very hard developing the mindset that all women see him as a Prize they're emotionally driven to win over, before procuring his prodigious harem of women.
There's one more important piece to the puzzle I need to mention… one that plays a monster sized role in determining your outcome with a woman…
HAVING THE SKILLSET TO TRIGGER AND AMPLIFY ATTRACTION IN WOMEN FROM THE MOMENT YOU MEET THEM TO THE BEDROOM…
A reality check…
There are always going to be people who are smarter, better looking, and wealthier than you.
If you lack the skills and confidence to trigger and amplify attraction in women at your whim, better looking, smarter, and wealthier men will get the girl you desire, not you.
But there's good news…
There are men who don't have money, looks, youth, or fame… yet consistently succeed with the women they desire. Women society dictates are out of their league.
They do this because of three things…
1). They don't have the limiting beliefs that hold most men back.
2). They walk into every interaction with a woman believing they are the Prize she's emotionally compelled to win over.
3). They've mastered the skill set of sparking and increasing attraction in the women they desire (and, yes, you too can spark attraction in women despite looks, age, money, or fame).
Though there's not many of these men on our planet, I was lucky enough to learn from a few of them. Most of these guys don't make their living teaching men how to date women. Heck, most don't even know they are ladies' men. They just live in a reality where women respond to them in the most mind blowing ways.
So, it was pure luck that I met them.
And because most dating experts haven't had the opportunity like I have to meet these men, my course is one of the only - if not the only - places on the planet where you can learn these secrets.
Just think how your life would change if you possessed the secret keys to unlock an infinite stream of power and choice with the women you desire. Life would FEEL pretty good, yes?
But the fact is... if you don't do something this very second about your success with women, there's a good chance you'll NEVER experience the power and choice with women you desire.
Don't let that happen. Get your hands on a copy of my course. You're one click away from possessing these secrets.
I'm so confident that my course is going to drastically increase your success with women I'm going to let you test-drive it free of charge. Don't like it, send it back. You won't be charged and we'll still be friends.
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I think you owe it to yourself to start succeeding with the women you really want.
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Your Loyal Dating Coach,
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